The comma object of two morphisms and in a 2-category is an object equipped with projections and and a 2-cell
which is universal in the sense of a 2-limit.
Part of this (to be explicit) is the statement that for any object , 1-morphisms , and 2-cell there is a 1-morphism and isomorphisms , such that modulo these isomorphisms, we have . There is also an additional “2-dimensional universality” saying that given and and 2-cells and such that , there exists a unique 2-cell such that and . Note that the 2-dimensional property implies that in the 1-dimensional property, the 1-morphism is unique up to unique isomorphism. A square containing a 2-cell with this property is sometimes called a comma square.
A strict comma object is analogous but has the universal property of a strict 2-limit. This means that given , , and as above, there exists a unique such that , , and . Note that any strict comma object is a comma object, but the converse is not in general true.
In Cat, a comma category is a comma object (in fact a strict one, as normally defined); these give their name to the general notion.